In fact, it’ll likely create more problems. She needs love. I realize that this child’s self-esteem is very important and her father’s public beating (and let’s not forget the very vocal heckling during the beating) will not ever solve anything. It’s fair to say that this particular 13-year-old girl was acting out. This realization manifests in different ways for different teens. We go from bright-eyed bushy-tailed optimists to angry know-it-alls who finally see that our parents aren’t perfect. It’s these pivotal adolescent years that change us. Many teenagers feel this way about their parents. Wherever she was, she felt like she wasn’t able to talk to her father. This 13-year-old girl, no matter what she did while she was away for three days, has trust issues with her father. Once the punishment becomes public social fodder, and humiliation is used, that trust between the parent and a child can easily be broken. That would require having a chat with a child about their wrongdoings, at some point. For a kid to understand the effectiveness of a spanking, there has to be a level of trust with the parent and after the child has gotten spanked, there should be a clear understanding of what they did wrong. I’m not here for public videos showcasing fed up parents beating their children, no matter their offense. Must Read: Can This Documentary Explain Why Everyone’s So Afraid Of Black Men?
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